My sister came down Tuesday night to spend Thanksgiving with us! B and I were both sleeping when she arrived but Luna heard her and was able to greet her.
We made cinnamon rolls on Wednesday as well as prepared some appetizers for the next day. Surprisingly, the grocery store wasn't that busy! We made a veggie dip and cut all the veggies, stuffed mushrooms, and had pinwheels just in case.
My sister and I left a little later than we intended (she stole my shower!) but made it to my aunt's house in Vermont by 12:30. My mom, brother, 2 of 3 cousins, and grandparents were already there, along with a few others to make 18 total.
My grandmother was already 3 martini's deep and a bit stumbly! My mom was making pumpkin martinis (damn sounded so good!)
The turkey was home raised, and all of the fixings were amazing. I really only had a couple bites of everything- since I wanted to try it all! We had pumpkin, apple, and berry pies- all homemade of course! My family really doesn't do 'fake' or store bought for the holidays which I am very grateful for! I also brought rice pudding that my step mother helped me make!
On the drive home my stomach was acting a bit funny. My right, lower abdomen was twitching. Just a few times, then in a few other places. It felt like a muscle twitch on the inside.
H and I considered heading out this morning to shop. We considered buying a dryer for our dad, they have been without one for 6 months. But he mentioned to her that they might be buying one, and she woke up at 10- so I didn't see risking having to return the dryer and not finding much else to buy at that point. I might look at what Cyber Monday deals are out there.
Overall a great holiday!
(will add pics when my mom gets them to me!)
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Friday, November 23, 2012
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Bets
After we told our parents, B and I had a few bets.
-How long until we received our first baby-related gift
-Who would give such gift
-Who would be the first to check in
... we pretty much guessed his mom for all, and we were pretty much right!
My dad did call on Tuesday to see if I had gotten a hold of my aunt, and to let me know he spoke with the rest of the family to share the news! (he has 4 siblings!)
My MIL mailed a package of books that we received Wednesday. One is a journal that I won't use, since I am posting here and another is a 'blessings' book that smells too religious for me. She did say she already had a bunch of stuff! She also wrote a thank you note to us for having them out to dinner and a 'congratulations' note on how excited they were for the baby. She may be the death of me.... typically its B's father but when it comes to things related to me my MIL bugs me! (she means well but it overbearing!)
-How long until we received our first baby-related gift
-Who would give such gift
-Who would be the first to check in
... we pretty much guessed his mom for all, and we were pretty much right!
My dad did call on Tuesday to see if I had gotten a hold of my aunt, and to let me know he spoke with the rest of the family to share the news! (he has 4 siblings!)
My MIL mailed a package of books that we received Wednesday. One is a journal that I won't use, since I am posting here and another is a 'blessings' book that smells too religious for me. She did say she already had a bunch of stuff! She also wrote a thank you note to us for having them out to dinner and a 'congratulations' note on how excited they were for the baby. She may be the death of me.... typically its B's father but when it comes to things related to me my MIL bugs me! (she means well but it overbearing!)
I am sure we will come up with a few more things to place bets about (just between the two of us) and I will be sure to update!
Monday, October 8, 2012
11 weeks
11 weeks- still no change and I'm ok with that!
How far Along: 11 weeks, 1 day!
Weight Gain/Loss: -2 overall
Symptoms: just the back pain these days (never got to call the doc)
Sleep: I am up around 4:15 every night having to pee!
Cravings: None yet!
Exercise: Back on track this week, going to try wii and the treadmill, prenatal yoga next monday, maybe?
What I Miss: dairy, gave me bad stomach/ bowel issues last few times
Moment of the Week: Sharing the news!!
Looking forward to: this week's appointment, meeting the doctor
Next Appointment: October 11th
Milestone:
How far Along: 11 weeks, 1 day!
Weight Gain/Loss: -2 overall
Symptoms: just the back pain these days (never got to call the doc)
Sleep: I am up around 4:15 every night having to pee!
Cravings: None yet!
Exercise: Back on track this week, going to try wii and the treadmill, prenatal yoga next monday, maybe?
What I Miss: dairy, gave me bad stomach/ bowel issues last few times
Moment of the Week: Sharing the news!!
Looking forward to: this week's appointment, meeting the doctor
Next Appointment: October 11th
Milestone:
Sharing the news!!!
We spent the entire weekend with family, sharing our big news. Here is how each announcement went!
In-Laws: I really wanted B's grandmother (all 90+ years of her!) to be the first to know. We took her and his parents out to eat. After ordering (and a nervous trip to the bathroom), I showed her the ultra sound picture. Poor thing couldn't see or hear, she said, "What a nice cake!" I told her she was going to be a great-grandmother, before she either heard or the news sunk in, B's mom grabbed the picture! From there it was lots of people talking over one another with excitement! (We did decide to tell them a few days later for a due date since B's dad's birthday is the day before!) B's mom admitted to already buying things for her grandchildren, including pregnancy books. She was excited to buy more, to which I respectfully shot down. I hate that babies/ children create SO much consumerism! I'm sure she will give us our first baby-related gift!
My mom/ Brother: My mom's boyfriend was out of town for a week and she wanted to use that as an excuse to meet up with my sister and I. We decided to do lunch, and my mom actually traveled since she wanted to visit a store out here. I picked a brewery that my sister and I enjoyed the food last time we were there. So I waited until she was paying attention to order. "I was going to order 'your light beer' but I will just have a water with lemon- since I am pregnant!" My mom didn't believe me, and wanted to see my belly! My brother arrived a bit later. I put the ultra sound picture in his birthday card. He "aww"ed wen he saw it and seemed pretty excited! My mom then went on to note she was planning on going away in April and this would force her to change her plans! (Well I guess that's up to her!!)
My dad/stepmom: Since my sister was in town, it was easy to arrange time with my dad. We had brunch at his house. They were pretty busy when we got there, cooking and preparing, so I couldn't announce before we ate. Once all of the cleaning was done, we sat in the living room. Ok, we didn't just all come to sit, a few sat, someone else, someone left, a few more sat, one left.... then finally when we were all together, my dad leaves! He came back with a picture he promised me! Once we get it framed it will up in our dining room. Before anyone else could leave- I handed him the onesie all folded up. He held it up and asks if it is a "hint." It took my stepmom a little bit but she screams and hugs me and almost cried! Her reaction was by far the craziest! She then went into all sorts of things I should and shouldn't do (she worked at an OBGYN office) including checking my shoes and pants for tightness! My dad was quiet but happy and congratulated us!
On the way home, we stopped by my step sisters work (she was very busy) to tell her she will be an auntie again! I then called my other step sisters, the one who answered was on her way to meet a new baby and was of course happy!
I also asked my sister to be in the delivery room with us. I have decided she is the only other person I want there. I can't imagine any of the 'mothers' in the room- mine would probably stress me out, and how could I ask any of the others without asking them all, and THAT is just not happening! B and I also talked about how we didn't really plan to tell anyone when I go into labor until the baby is born. This way we don't have anyone breathing down our necks and we will have time to spend on our own with our little one.
Today, I made a few more calls. My mom's sister and mother as well as my dad's sister that I am closest with, and I finally connected with my third stepsister! I wanted to talk to all of these ladies. I don't mind if my dad tells the rest of my other aunts and uncles, although I text them all after he spoke with them.
It feels great! Only 19 days until we tell our friends (unless someone leaks it one Facebook first!)
In-Laws: I really wanted B's grandmother (all 90+ years of her!) to be the first to know. We took her and his parents out to eat. After ordering (and a nervous trip to the bathroom), I showed her the ultra sound picture. Poor thing couldn't see or hear, she said, "What a nice cake!" I told her she was going to be a great-grandmother, before she either heard or the news sunk in, B's mom grabbed the picture! From there it was lots of people talking over one another with excitement! (We did decide to tell them a few days later for a due date since B's dad's birthday is the day before!) B's mom admitted to already buying things for her grandchildren, including pregnancy books. She was excited to buy more, to which I respectfully shot down. I hate that babies/ children create SO much consumerism! I'm sure she will give us our first baby-related gift!
My mom/ Brother: My mom's boyfriend was out of town for a week and she wanted to use that as an excuse to meet up with my sister and I. We decided to do lunch, and my mom actually traveled since she wanted to visit a store out here. I picked a brewery that my sister and I enjoyed the food last time we were there. So I waited until she was paying attention to order. "I was going to order 'your light beer' but I will just have a water with lemon- since I am pregnant!" My mom didn't believe me, and wanted to see my belly! My brother arrived a bit later. I put the ultra sound picture in his birthday card. He "aww"ed wen he saw it and seemed pretty excited! My mom then went on to note she was planning on going away in April and this would force her to change her plans! (Well I guess that's up to her!!)
My dad/stepmom: Since my sister was in town, it was easy to arrange time with my dad. We had brunch at his house. They were pretty busy when we got there, cooking and preparing, so I couldn't announce before we ate. Once all of the cleaning was done, we sat in the living room. Ok, we didn't just all come to sit, a few sat, someone else, someone left, a few more sat, one left.... then finally when we were all together, my dad leaves! He came back with a picture he promised me! Once we get it framed it will up in our dining room. Before anyone else could leave- I handed him the onesie all folded up. He held it up and asks if it is a "hint." It took my stepmom a little bit but she screams and hugs me and almost cried! Her reaction was by far the craziest! She then went into all sorts of things I should and shouldn't do (she worked at an OBGYN office) including checking my shoes and pants for tightness! My dad was quiet but happy and congratulated us!
On the way home, we stopped by my step sisters work (she was very busy) to tell her she will be an auntie again! I then called my other step sisters, the one who answered was on her way to meet a new baby and was of course happy!
I also asked my sister to be in the delivery room with us. I have decided she is the only other person I want there. I can't imagine any of the 'mothers' in the room- mine would probably stress me out, and how could I ask any of the others without asking them all, and THAT is just not happening! B and I also talked about how we didn't really plan to tell anyone when I go into labor until the baby is born. This way we don't have anyone breathing down our necks and we will have time to spend on our own with our little one.
Today, I made a few more calls. My mom's sister and mother as well as my dad's sister that I am closest with, and I finally connected with my third stepsister! I wanted to talk to all of these ladies. I don't mind if my dad tells the rest of my other aunts and uncles, although I text them all after he spoke with them.
It feels great! Only 19 days until we tell our friends (unless someone leaks it one Facebook first!)
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